As we get deep into life with guest families, we are noticing this desire to FIX and CURE every obstacle that a family may face. And we would like to do it as soon as possible. But what if that isn’t our role?
I have been challenged by some wise words from Henri Nouwen to look at our work from another angle. We talk often about “help without hurting” and “doing life together.” Nouwen uses a different concept, Cure vs. Care, and we are indebted to his thoughts in Out of Solitude for the quote boxes below.
So many kind hearts seek often to effect change as soon as possible, providing instant results.
We will do everything we possibly can for families, but we cannot ultimately cure all the needs a family may have while they are in our program. But what if we can best show care by joining people in their circumstance and supporting them in taking positive steps forward? What if we can just offer presence?
And if you choose to add a faith element to this, the concept may even change how you look at God’s dealings with humanity.
Forming new community with the powerless sounds good. That’s what we want to be about.
Katy Penner is our Board PR/Communications team chair.
Family Promise of Greater Wichita unites hearts and hands to provide compassionate hospitality and empower homeless families with children to achieve sustainable independence. We are a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization. All donations are tax-deductible.
